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In the name of Allah most gracious most merciful. 

Love for people what you love for yourself

 

Written by:  Sk Abd-Razzag Taher Farih

Translated by: Dr. Faheem Bukhatwa

 

06 April 2018

20 Rajab 1439.

 

Dearly beloved,

 

One day the prophet ppbu sat down and asked his companions: {Who would take a few words from me and he would follow them; or teach others to follow them?} Abu-Huraira said: I will, O messenger of Allah. The messenger then took Abu-Huraira’s hand and counted to five, then said: {Avoid; and be fearful of anything forbidden; then you would be the most devout of all people. And accept and be satisfied with what Allah gives to you then you would be the richest of all people. And treat well your neighbour then you will be a true believer (or a true person of faith). And love for all people what you would love for yourself then you would be a Muslim. And do not laugh far too much. For too much laughter kills off the heart}. This was the advice that the first teacher (ppbu) gave the brightest student Abi-Hurairah may God be pleased with him. His advice for Abi-Hurairah is an advice for the entire nation. That is because the essence is in the general intended meaning and scope rather than by the specific reason or specific person or recipient of the word.

 

We, on this Friday, talk about the last two points of this great advice, the first: “And love for all people what you would love for yourself then you would be a Muslim”. Meaning, for your Islam to be complete; it is a condition that you would love the good for people just as you would love it for yourself. Islam made loving good to other people amongst the signs of the fulfilment of faith, and an indication how much faith is engrained into the heart. Also, the lack of that love of good for people is a sign of missing some faith; or faith not being complete. This is a confirmation to what the messenger ppbu said: {none of you will be a believer unless he loves for his brother what he loves for himself}. Muad once asked the messenger ppbu about the best type of faith. The messenger ppbu said: {is to love for the sake of Allah, and is to hate for the sake of Allah. And to get your tong busy in remembering Allah}. Muad said: and what else? The messenger ppbu said: {and to love for people what you would love for yourself, and would hate for people what you would hate for yourself}.

 

When a Muslim loves the good for others, then that will have an effect in the way he/she interact with people. Then you would find a high standard in dealing with people, and a higher level of morals, and you will find a lot of patience and tolerance to harm, and in overlooking other people’s mistakes, and forgiving those who have done you harm, and sharing their happy and sad events with them.

Loving the good for people leads the individual to win paradise. The messenger ppbu said: {whoever would love to be dislodged off hellfire and moved into paradise then let them die while he/she has faith in Allah and in the day after, and does to people what he would like to be done to him or deals with people they way he would like to be dealt with}.

 

Loving the good for people is not limited to what gets them happy in this life, but it extends to loving happiness for them in the life after. One should love for people that Allah will bestow the mercy of faith upon them, and love for people that Allah would save them from the darkness of disobedience and associating others with Allah (shirk). The messenger ppbus said: {and love for people what you love for yourself then you would be a Muslim}. The messenger ppbu was a role model in that. His love for people got to the point that he almost died in sadness and gloom and feeling sorry for them. Allah says: {Perhaps, you, would kill yourself in grief, over their footsteps (for their turning away from you), because they believe not in this narration (the Quran). What a shame} 18:6. Allah also said: {Do not destroy yourself in sorrow for them} 35:8.

The messenger ppbu called on to people or preached for them in all places, at all times and in all situations. He called them over mountains, and in mosques, on the road and in the market place. He called them in his health and when he was sick, he called those who loved him and those who despised him, and those who listened to his message and those who denied it. What benefit do you think he has in them being guided? There is no reason other than he loved the good for the people.

Here is the messenger ppbu expressing his love of good for Abi-Thurr, he said: {Aba-Thurr, I see that you are weak, and I love for you what I love for myself. Never accept being in charge of people, not even two people. And never accept looking after the money of an orphan}.

Our righteous predecessors followed the footsteps of the messenger ppbu. Their hearts overfilled with love for people. Ebn-Abbas said: Anytime it rained I thanked Allah and felt so happy with it, and yet there is absolutely nothing in it for me. I do not have a lamb and not a camel. And any time I heard of a judged who practiced justice then I made a prayer for him, yet I had no case in his court. And any time I got to know or understand a verse from the book of Allah then I always wished if people knew what I know.

 

Dearly beloved in Allah, what are the things which can help you become one of those who love good for people. Turn to Allah and make duaa, and be insistent towards Him so He would make us amongst those who love good for people, and amongst those who make people hear from us which is of benefit to them. And make duaa so that the good will come to those round us; without anyone knowing about the duaa. Put in the effort in seeking what would benefit people and make them happy and would make them in a better situation, and what would get tiredness and strain lifted off them. Be more concerned or put more attention in order to be in the company of those who love the good for others, and in the company of those who seek out to serve and benefit people. That is because a Muslim would love that Allah will be merciful to all creations. A Muslim would like that most people would become Muslims, and would love that Allah would guide the most obscene evil people. That is our faith, we love being saved and being good for ourselves and we love others to be saved and to be good.

 

The last point in the hadeeth: “And do not laugh far too much. For too much laughter kills off the heart”. Laughing is an act which is characteristic of mankind. It comes after some kind of understanding or knowing some heard words, or some seen event which causes the act of laughter. But too much laughter generates darkness in the heart and some kind of death to it.

 

Islam welcomes everything and anything which makes life happy and good. It is also liked for a Muslim to have an optimistic and a cheerful personality. And it is disliked to have a depressing and pessimistic personality; which would look at people and at life; only through a dark and black telescope. The role model for all Muslims in that field is the messenger ppbu. Despite all his multiple responsibilities and varied concerns, he used to have fun; and used to be cheerful with them, but he never said words except the truth. He lived with his people a natural ordinary life. He shared their laughter, their play and their fun. Just as he joined them in their pain, sadness and calamities.

 

Therefore, what is deterred against in his hadeeth is not laughter, but the extreme indulgence in laughter. Laughing is not deterred against as a laughter, but what it may develop into or lead to results or morals which Islam would not accept.

Everything that exceeds its limit, turn into the opposite.

 

 

Notes:

  1. Adhan - The call to prayer.

  2. Ahmad (Ahmed)- Another name for the messenger Muhammad (PPBU).

  3. Allah - The Arabic word for "god."  It is often used as a name for God in Islam.

  4. Ansar (or Al-Ansar): The inhabitants of the city of Al-Medina that received and supported the messenger (PPBU) when he immigrated from Mekkah in the very early years of Islam.

  5. Assalam Alaikum - The Islamic greeting, literately means: Peace be with you. Used when approaching or leaving. When used during approaching it will be like saying: I bring no harm to you . and when said during leaving somebody it will mean: No harm will come to you after I leave.

  6. Aya (or Ayah): is a verse of the Koran. It also means a miracle or a sign from God.

  7. Arafa (or Arafah or Arafat): is a mountain outside the city of Mecca that represents the climax of the Hajj worship. All doing Hajj must stay at this location on the same day.

  8. Badr - The place of the first significant battle between the Muslims and the pagans of the Quraish. It is located in Saudi Arabia.  

  9. Caliph - A Muslim ruler. See: (Khalifa) 

  10. Dajjal - Antichrist or the False Massiah.

  11. Dawah - The proliferation of Islamic teachings through word and deed.  

  12. Deen (Din) - Religion or way of life. 

  13. Duaa: a prayer in the form of talking to Allah; praising him and asking him for help.

  14. Fatwa - Legal verdict given based on the Qur'an (Koran) and the Sunnah which are the recorded sayings and deeds of Muhammad.

  15. Ferdose: is the highest level of the all the gardens of Eden or paradise.

  16. Fiqh - Religious law.

  17. Hadeeth: is something reported that the messenger have said. It includes all the speeches and ceremonies he gave. It is usually narrated or told by one of his companions. There is a list of hadeeths approximately 14000 that are reported and checked to be genuine. No more hadeeths are acceptably added to this list.

  18. Hajar - The Black Stone set into the corner of the Ka'aba in Mecca. It is said to be a stone from Heaven.

  19. Hajj - The pilgrimage to Mecca which takes place in the last month of the Islamic calendar.  One of the five pillars of Islam.

  20. Hasana or hasanas: is the reward for a good deed. a hasana is a point or a merit for a good deed.

  21. Hadith - The sayings and not deeds of the prophet Muhammad recorded by his followers.  Considered authoritative and perfect.

  22. Hajj: is the worship of pilgrimage.

  23. Hijra (or Hejrah): the event of the immigration of the messenger from Mekkah to Madina. This event marks the start of the Islamic calendar. the Islamic calendar has 12 months based on the lunar cycle, each is 29.5 days. Hijra is also used as a name for the Islamic dating system.

  24. Ibadah - Worship. All the words and deeds with which Allah is pleased. These deeds could be prayer and charity.

  25. Iblis - (Ibleese): On of Satan's names.

  26. Ibn (Ebn): the son of. Used by Arabs as part of an individual's name. Example: Ali whose father is Omar or the son of Omar, would be called: Ali Ibn Omar.

  27. Imam (or Emam)- The leader for a prayer. In the Shiaa sect, an Imam is the individual who has the religious authority.  

  28. Iman: belief or faith

  29. Injil (Enjeel) - The Bible. The book inspired to Jesus for the Christians.

  30. Islam - Submission, the religion of all the prophets of Allah culminating in Muhammad.

  31. Jannah - The heavenly garden, Paradise.  The place of the faithful in the afterlife.

  32. Jihad: is striving in the line of Allah in many forms. Includes a very wide scope varying from improving oneself to fighting a defensive war in protection of Allah's word. The greatest Jihad is the fight one's self against temptations. It also means "holy war."

  33. Jinn - Supernatural, invisible beings race of beings, below angels.  They were made from fire. Like humans, there amongst them are the faithful and the non beleivers and Jinn shall be judged on Judgment Day.

  34. Ka'aba: A cube shaped building in Mecca containing a stone laid there by Abraham and Ishmael. Some say Ka'aba was first built by Adam, and some say by Abraham. It is the holiest place for Muslims. It is where all Muslims face in their daily prayers. Ka'aba also makes a major part of the pilgrimage in a ritual known as Tawaf.

  35. Khalifa: is the Muslim ruler. Head of the Islamic empire. Exact translation: "Successor".

  36. Khutbah  - A sermon given in a Mosque, usually on Friday.

  37. Kufr - Denial or Disbelief. A term Muslims use for anyone who denies existence of Allah or the prophecy of Muhammed.

  38. Koran - Also spelled Qur'an.  The holy book of Islam revealed to Muhammad by Allah through the Archangel Gabriel.  Koran literally means "the recital."  It is the final revelation of Allah given to the prophet Muhammad. It consists of 114 surahs (or chapters.)

  39. Madinah - (Medinah): A city in the Arabian peninsula (in the country known now as Saudi Arabia). A city where the messenger had to immigrate to. Then it was called Yathrib.

  40. Masjid - A center for Muslim activity.  It is referred to as a mosque.

  41. Masiah - A sin, or a sinful act

  42. Mecca or Makkah: is the holiest city for Muslims. It contains the Ka'aba mosque with the famous black cubical shape. Mecca is the birth place of the messenger (PPBU).

  43. Mosque - A Muslim house of worship.

  44. Muhajir - (Muhajireen) Immigrant, one who leaves his home town due to lack of religious freedom. It was first used to describe early Muslims immigrating from Mecca to Median and Ethiopia.

  45. Muhammad - the final messenger and prophet of God whose message abrogated all previous revelations.  He received the Koran through the angel Gabriel over a 23 year period. Born in Mecca and died in Medina at the age of 63. His full name: Muhammad ibn Abd-Allah

  46. Muslim - One who holds faith to the religion of Islam.

  47. Nafilah: a voluntary prayer other than the five obligatory prayers; performed at any time.

  48. Nasara - Christians.  Nasrani: A Christian individual. Nasraniah: Christianity.

  49. Ommah: is the Arabic word for a nation. It usually refers to the Islamic nation unless otherwise specified.

  50. Paradise - Another word for heaven.  A garden of bliss, fruits, rivers and all forms of pleasures imaginable and imaginable. No suffering, disease or death. Service is provided by angels. All live  in it an ever lasting youthful life. Promised by Almighty Allah to all faithful, true Jews, true Christians and True Muslims. Paradise is one of two places every person will go to, either Paradise or Hellfire.

  51. PPBU (P.B.U.H.) : Peace and Prayers Be Upon him. A statement Muslims use any time they mention the name of the messenger or make a reference to him.

  52. Qadar - Fate. Preordainment is the teaching that all things, good and bad, are preordained to occur.

  53. Qadr - (night of Qadr): The night when the first revelation of the Koran took place. Most likely it happened during one of the last ten nights of the month of Ramadan. Or when the Koran was brought down to the nearest heaven in one go, and from there it was brought down in bits and few verses at a time over a period of 23 years. This night is considered the holiest night for Muslims with tremendous advantages.

  54. Qibla - The direction which Muslims turn for daily prayers, towards Mecca.

  55. Quraish - An ancient Arab tribe to which the messenger Muhammad belonged.

  56. Ramadan - The ninth month of the Islamic calendar which is the month of the fast. The holiest month in the Muslim colander.

  57. Salat - Prayers. Generally it covers all forms of worship, but more specifically refers to the Muslim rituals which is performed to worship Allah five times daily.

  58. Shiaa: A sect of Islam that teaches that a religion leader (Imam) should be the political ruler and must be direct descendants of the messenger (PPBU). Therefore, disapproving of all Muslim leaders who ruled After the messenger (PPBU) except Ali, the messenger's grandson.

  59. Shirk - Associating another god with Allah.  Or associating anyone or anything with Allah. Or using anyone or anything as a medium to Allah. The opposite of Monotheism or Tawheed.  

  60. Siam  or Soam- Fasting

  61. Sunni: is a the title of  those Muslims who are suppose to be following the life style of the messenger. This differentiates them from the Shiaa of Iran.

  62. Sunna (Sunnah): Is how the Messenger PPBU lived, what he did or said. It includes the way he dressed, ate, drank, prayed, interacted with other people and fought. Basically, sunnah is the life style of the messenger PPBU. It is considered the second source of legislation in Islamic laws and it is considered to be an important reference to be used for concluding arguments and disputes. It is also a title give to the main stream Muslims who make 90% if all Muslims.

  63. Surah - A chapter of the Koran.  

  64. Tawaf: part of the pilgrimage (Hajj) ritual. It involves walking round the Ka'aba Mosque in anti-clock wise direction a number of seven circles.

  65. Tauhid - Tawheed - Monotheism, in Islam is the teaching that there is only one God who alone is worthy of worship. The first requirement of becoming a Muslim. It is included in the testimony of faith for new Muslims when declaring that God is one: (No God but Allah)

  66. Taqwah - Proper fear and veneration of Allah.  A divine spark that enables the person to understand God.

  67. Taurat: The old Testaments and scriptures of Mosa.

  68. Ummah - the word means: a Nation. Usually refers to the Islamic nation unless otherwise stated.

  69. Umrah - (Amrah): A mini hajj. A Minor form of pilgrimage to Mecca. Unlike Hajj which can only be done on the 12th month of the Islamic year, Umrah can be performed at any time.

  70. Wathoo (wadoo): a washing up ritual done by Muslims before each of the five daily prayers known as ablution.

  71. Zaboor - The Psalms

  72. Zakat - The third pillar of Islam.  Alms giving, charity that is given to the poor.

 

 


Faheem Bukhatwa, my email address is : faheemfb@gmail.com